You are not an adult yet, and that is a good thing. You have a safety net. You have time. Don't waste your teenage years crying over people who treat you like a convenience.
I've interpreted "beromen" colloquially as engaging in immature or casual romantic/sexual relationships (often used in Malaysian/Singaporean teen slang). The post reframes it as a wake-up call or motivational message. budak sekolah beromen target better
Use Bahasa Malaysia as the medium of instruction. You are not an adult yet, and that is a good thing