If you watch Blue Valentine , do not watch it for comfort. Watch it to understand that love and pain are not opposites. They are synonyms, spoken with different accents.
A suffocating, gray reality six years later, where the couple shares a young daughter, a modest house, and an ocean of unspoken resentment. Blue Valentine -2010-2010
A deeper of specific scenes (like the tap-dancing scene) If you watch Blue Valentine , do not watch it for comfort
Director Derek Cianfrance aimed for a "lived-in" feel; the lead actors even lived together for a month with the child actress to build a natural family dynamic. Parents Guide & Content Advisory If you watch Blue Valentine
The details and the director's process